RAISED TO OBEY SERIES:
I recall this memory so clearly. Every morning, just before I got out of the car for school, my father…
I recall this memory so clearly. Every morning, just before I got out of the car for school, my father…
Have you ever sat on the edge of a personal awakening—one that calls you to speak up, say no, or…
I grew up calling God “He.” He was a Father. A Lord. A Ruler. A King. He was always above,…
Is My Worth Still Holy If I Disappoint You? Approval, church leadership, and identity For a long time, I believed…
I Didn’t Hear God — I Heard Guilt Discernment vs. religious guilt For a long time, I thought guilt was…
Silence and submission in church spaces “Let the woman learn in silence.” “Wives, submit to your husbands.” “Do not permit…
The Good Christian Girl: What We Were Taught We were taught to be good. Not good as in kind or…
Reclaiming Rage and Truth Somewhere along the way, you were taught that anger was a problem. Ugly. Unladylike. Dangerous. You…
Perfectionism & Emotional Labor There’s a woman many of us know— She’s always composed. Always reliable. The one who remembers…
Boundary Setting as Rebellion “No.” That tiny word can feel like a crime. Especially if you were raised to be…
Body Image, Femininity, and Being Palatable I used to believe my worth lived in the mirror. That beauty made me…